What I would tell Her....

• Kiss him every morning before he leaves for work, when he comes home from work and before you both go to bed.
• Make his lunch for work everyday, even on the days he is a mean fuck and you want to throw your chappal at him.
• Sit and eat with him at dinner, talk to him about the crazy people he met and how other drivers pissed him off and all the road rage he encountered, talk to him about your day and what you saw and heard.
• Allow him to be quiet when he doesn't feel like chatting and try not to take it too personally, althou this can be hard, but sometimes he just needs his time.
• Tell him when you think he is full of shit and is not be honest with you.
• Don't be afraid of him.
• Don't tell him do this and do that, ask him...tell him: ji do you mind...will you please....can you please....He is your man treat him with respect.
• DO NOT become a push over, stay strong in your own point of veiws without becoming over bearing or bitchy.
• Be confident in who you are.
• Let him mourn for his mother when ever he remembers her, talk to him about her, understand her, she was the most beautiful and important woman in his life and she will always have the biggest part of him. Accept it with love.
• Understand that he is always testing you and checking on you and will find a way to be aware of everything you do and all the people you speak to and if he doesn't know, it will make him antsy.
• Keep no secrets from him. He will sense when you are not being straight.
• Pray with him and discuss the deeper meaning of life in a non preachy way.
• Hug him when he is least expecting. Wrap your arms around him from behind when he is washing his hands after dinner, or put your arm around his waist when at the grocery store and bring him in close to you so he can feel your warmth.
• Never mope whine or moan about his gym and supplements. It is his passion, encourage him and if you are smart train with him.
• Becareful not to judge his family, althou he will complain, do not add your two cents he needs to vent his frustrations he doesn't need you to magnify what is wrong with the situaton.
• When at the movies or watching tv, lean over and kiss him on his neck and tell him how attractive you find him and how much you desire him.
• Tell him you LOVE HIM! Everyday! Even if he doesn't respond, his heart feels it.
• Be cautious, even thou he seems as calm as still waters, he is a raging emotional man, never take what you see for granted, cos who he seems to be and who he is are not always in correlation.
• PUSH HIM TO LIVE HIS OWN DREAMS! Don't belittle him or make him feel like he talking nonsense, let him try to make it.
• At night when he is sleeping you wake him up by kissing him, touching him, arousing him to make love.
• Always keep your hand on his leg or back of his neck, or play with his ear when he is driving. He loves the sensation of touch. Gentle touch.
• Tickle his back before he falls asleep and massage his sore muscles when he comes home from the gym.
• Be sensual with him.
• Be bold with him.
• Be sexual with him.
• Be so tender and affectionate with him, this is what he craves the most, pure tenderness and pure affection.
• Know him, understand him, watch him, make him a part of who you are and let him make you apart of who he is.
• Don't be typical.
• Always take care of yourself, smell good, groom yourself, be feminine.
• Never ever judge him for his past or throw it in his face.
• Don't have too much pride and say sorry to him first. He appreciates it more than he shows.
• Know that he is SMART and can push your buttons and will out wit you.
• Be loyal to him and only him and he will take care of your family as his own.
• He may seem like a mad angry man, but he is a gentle spirit who hates conflict.
• NEVER MAKE FUN OF HIM, unless you are confident you can get away with it.
• Be his friend, his best friend that he is unafraid to tell everything to.
• Let him be possessive of you.
• Make him your King and you will without hesitation be his Queen.
  

These are things I wish I could tell her.