Ok here is what I have learnt in the last 20 mins...
- If someone doesn't get your sense of humour, they are not likely to ever really get it.
- If someone is in a dark place in their life, you can't be the one to rescue them, they have to be willing to pull back the drapes of sadness from their own life, and let the light in.
- If someone doesn't have a social life, and would rather be working than spending time with themselves or with friends and other social creatures, there is something wrong.
- If language and tone are an issue you are totally screwed, without communication what the hell do you have?!
- If someone says they don't want to talk about their past, you know there is something really bad there or they are still raw, which already means trouble and you should be lacing up your sneakers to run.
- If you have to work hard to make it feel right, IT'S NOT RIGHT!
- If you are scared to be yourself, wtf are you still doing there?
- If you are there because you are feeling sad for them, be prepared to put on the Dr. Phil hat for them....and decide whether you have it in you to save someone this week....I know, what about compassion? Don't have much of it atm. Sorry.
- If you are saying sorry, I misunderstood you more than LOL...YOU ARE FUCKED!
- And finally if you don't have a happy calm let me get to know you more feeling then why are you wasting your time?
OK I am outta here....
I can't handle another drama atm....No matter how pretty the package....
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